A gentleman or a real man is not defined by the content of his wallet or the cut of his suit. He is defined by his manners and the content of his character.
Manhood doesn’t mean a masculine power or it shouldn’t be misunderstood as some sort of sexual power. According to Merriam Webster dictionary, manhood means “the condition of being a human being”. Manhood means manliness and manliness is the character of a man as he ought to be, as he was meant to be. It doesn’t mean the power to suppress women and other weak people. Manhood is the quality that makes a man a better human being.
Manhood is neither about the anatomy of a man nor about the age that defines his maturity. It’s neither about his grades that defines his intellect nor about the rumors that define who is he? Manhood is about values, morals, and dignity.
A real man is not ashamed to admit that he loves his women. He always put his women first and always compliment her. Manhood is not the controlling power over women.
A MAN’S MANHOOD is reflected in the way, he treats all the women in his life.
These are the qualities that make a man a real man.
A real man never gossips how many women he has made love with besides his wife. Cheating and adultery are disgusting. That is not a sign of manhood. A real man stays faithful to his woman. A real man is loyal and loving to one woman. He does not need “eight women around him twerking” A strong man protects his woman. He does not hurt his woman
A real man has courage. He has guts to face challenges regardless of the risks involved. He fights the battle of his life courageously. He fights for his family and his country.
A real man doesn’t run from a problem. He is always helpful to the people around him. He never says “It’snot my problem”. A real man is a real friend for a friend who is in need of it.
A real man is a man of integrity. He is honest and respectful to others. He never cheats and exploits other people for his own benefits.
A real man is strong but he does not misuse his strength. He does not lose his temper and attack others. He is strong but calm, quiet, and restrained.
A real man is confident. He knows himself and believes in himself. He sets his goal which he can achieve. He relies on himself and you can rely on him.
A real man has a strong principle and ideology. You know what he stands for. You know his position. He does not change his position like politicians. He follows his own rules and principles.
A real man is compassionate but he is not weak. He feels for others who are suffering. He never takes advantage of an innocent person’s weakness, not even women’s.
A man is humble and treats others with respect. He praises others but not himself. His apologies if he has done a mistake. He listens to others and values their opinion.
A strong man learns to depend on himself for his well-being. He is always prepared for all the possible consequences. But still, he wants to cooperate with others in their hard times.